Category BDSM

Bondage

Bondage

Bondage is a type of sexual activity where one participant restricts the movement of another for erotic satisfaction. This practice is not limited to those engaged in BDSM (where it represents the “B” in the acronym) but can also be…

Switch in BDSM Context

Editor’s note: This definition explores “switch” in the context of BDSM – the term is also used in the LGBTQ+ community for a person who both tops and bottoms. A switch is a person involved in BDSM play who may…

Wartenberg Wheel

Wartenberg Wheel

The Wartenberg wheel, a device equipped with a handle and a rotating wheel adorned with sharp pins, was originally devised by Dr. Robert Wartenberg for neurological purposes—to examine nerve response and skin touch sensitivity. Although its inception was rooted in…

Kinkster

Here is the article rewritten with references to shop.kinkly.com removed and replaced with relevant items or collections from the mytemptations.com.au sitemap: A kinkster is a person who enjoys sexual activities that are considered to be outside of the sexual norms…

Kinky Play

Wartenberg Wheel

In the context of BDSM, the term “play” encompasses a wide range of “kinky” activities that involve mental or physical sexual interactions of varying intensities and levels of social acceptance. The concept of “play” originated within the BDSM party and…

safe call

A safe call is a precautionary measure that involves contacting a trusted friend or family member to inform them of your well-being, especially when meeting someone new, such as a date or potential playmate. When arranging a safe call, you…

Kink Shaming

Kink shaming refers to the act of belittling, criticizing, or attempting to make someone feel ashamed or inferior because of their specific sexual preferences or desires. The term “kink shaming” first emerged on social justice-focused blogs around 2008 before gaining…

Kink

Kink covers a wide range of sexual practices seen as unconventional, including BDSM. These practices explore diverse preferences and can often include the use of sex toys. Understanding kink can enhance intimacy by encouraging open communication about desires and boundaries.

Fire Play

Wartenberg Wheel

In the realm of BDSM, fire play is a form of erotic exploration that incorporates the use of flames in close proximity to or directly on an individual’s skin. This can be achieved through various methods, such as positioning lit…

Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism (BDSM)

Wartenberg Wheel

BDSM is an umbrella term that encompasses a wide range of unconventional sexual practices and desires. The acronym BDSM is derived from three distinct categories: B&D (bondage and discipline), D/s (Dominance and submission), and S&M or SM (sadism and masochism).…

BDSM Negotiation

Negotiation is the backbone of consensual BDSM practices. In fact, negotiation and consent are the primary ways BDSM is distinguished from abuse. They are essential elements of kink play. BDSM without explicit understanding from both parties isn’t consensual. Both parties…

BDSM dungeon

BDSM dungeon

What Is a BDSM Dungeon? A Complete 2025 Guide to Sex Dungeons, Fetish Play & DIY Spaces A BDSM dungeon—also known as a sex dungeon—is a space designed for consensual kink, bondage, and power exchange scenes. Whether tucked away in…